Gender
Female
Gender
Female
Location
Tampa,FLorida
Graduating Year:
1986
About Me:
Many people don't know I almost didn't even graduate. In May of 1985, I was put into W.T. Edwards ( juvie jail ) for assult and battery (I pushed my Mom down and she filed) I decided to do all the school work I could while in a half-way house and W.T..(they had a program that if you did it, you could go back and not miss a beat.) I came back to school without a hitch. There were many teachers that supported me GREATLY during this time and friends too.. It was a difficult time for me.. but, I had a tough exterior and most didn't know a thing that was going on at home! After graduation, at 17, I got engaged, only to later break it off, due to not really knowing what I actually wanted to do with my life.. it felt like the wrong move... my deep motive was to prove I was an adult and could be on my own.. oh, I was SO wrong! I soon after that got very involved with drugs and alcohol so much so that I ended up in jail and the hospital (for overdosing), and eventually detox and rehab. That part of my life is GONE! WheW, am I glad of that!! I am now a COMPLETLELY different person, it's as if I was never even that person at all. But, it's has taken MANY years to get to that point... of getting that OLD me out of the way! It was like luggage for a family of 10, and I wasn't going anywhere! I just didn't want to LET IT GO.. it was draggin' me down.. BAD! I've had an INCREDIBLE MARRIAGE (married in 1997) ~ when I met my husband ~ I NEVER KNEW HOW GOOD IT WOULD BE! He accepted me "as-is" (which I have to say, is kinda like a car that may have looked o.k.~ but is a mEss inside)In the years together, we have grown together in a way I never thought to be possible. **The BIGGEST PART OF MY LIFE .. WAS ME ACCEPTING JESUS. I cannot imagine " the old me "~The gradual change has been one that I can now wake-up in the morning and feel GREAT! It's been since 2002, when I gave my life to God ( first time was at 15, but that's another story) I am commited to what I am here to do.. not thinking it's ALL ABOUT ME.. I love to listen to Christian music (90.5 Spirit FM), and podcasts everyday to keep me grounded and growing. We've taught in our Childrens' Ministry, at VanDkye Methodist for 4 years now, and love it, we started going on 2002, and knew it was thee place to worship! Most people talk about their kids etc. and since we don't have any, ( but, may someday adopt~) ...I am talking about how my life has changed.. because IT'S THE MOST SIGNIFICANT THING IN MY LIFE... God has graced me with what I never thought I was worthy of, deserved or felt before. I FEEL GOOD... and I never have really felt that.. ... I am the National Product Educator for one of the largest vitamin companies,Country Life.You'll find us in any health food store! I travel three weeks of each month around the United States. I fly out on Mondays and come home on Thursdays. I am in a different state, and cover all 50. (Haven't been to Louisiana, Mississippi or N. Dakota yet)I've been in the industry for over 10 years, with Country Life, since 2004. I give public lectures in health food stores and have several radio shows that I am a guest on in different states. I LOVE the radio aspect of it! ( But, would never want to do JUST radio!) The bigger the crowd the better.. but, I hate social stuff.. After the 1983 bodybuilding contest at Hillsborough (the first year for girls) contest, I think a lot of people thought I'd be doing that.... I try to get in my exercise as much as I can on the road. It's tough, as I'm in a different time-zone each week. I am tremendously happy with my life, the way I feel, what I have accomplished and where I am going. I have been so blessed to have the husband I have, the family I have ( even finding my biological Mother, Sandi, in 2005) Life is what you make of it and you need to have INTENTIONAL CHANGE.. (a book I am currently working on) in order to grow.. I've been at the VERY,depths of darkness and know that it HAS to be an INTENTIONAL movement in the other direction to make a change in your life... regardless of WHAT you are doing or going through! I look forward to re-uniting with friends and people from school, as I have only seen a few people since graduation. I guess I could have just put: VERY, VERY HAPPILY MARRIED, LOVIN' LIFE AND LOVIN' GOD, No kids, Three Bichon Frise Doggies ( Billie, Sam, Nickki ) But, hey.. that would have been boring.... LIFE IS A THRILL, IT'S EXCITING, AND I'M HAPPY!!!!
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Keep on keepin' on, Bryan
The picture was taken at Kearsearge Pass (elev. 11,760 ft.) in the Sierra Mountains. I went backpacking there in late August 2008. I'll post some more pictures online of me and my family. Please email.
It looks like things are good for you, I am glad to see that!
It was good to hear from you!
K.I.T.,
Sean